 FACT: Ashima says she is 45 years old at the end of the movie, and  that she has been living in America for 25 years, hence indicating  she was married at 20, and in a conversation with Gogol, she says,  "when I was your age I was celebrating my tenth year anniversary".  That would make Gogol 30 years old, but it isnt possible as she has  been living in America for 25 years, and Gogol was born in America,  as he says himself.